it's official

[winterbadger]

My notarized copy of the final decree arrived in the mail, along with a checkrepresenting the remainder of the retainer (to soften the blow, I suppose).

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[winterbadger]

Yeah, at this point it's mostly "Wheew! That's DONE!" We've had things sorted out between us and been ready to move on for a while now. We're friends, we've done the stuff we needed to for *us*; it's justt nice to have all (well, most) of the paperwork done.

I could feel really sad and upset if I worked myself up to it, but that seems pretty foolish. That part of our life is over is very sad, but it's been over for a while now,a nd we both agreed about that. Now we have the papers that say it, that's all.

[peaceful-fox.livejournal.com]

That's such a healthy attitude to have. I know so many people who just work themselves up to a frenzy. I am so glad you are staying positive! :-)

[winterbadger]

Well, it would be easier if my sister hadn't just called to say my mum was int eh hospital with pneumonia! But at least she's *in* the hospital...

[peaceful-fox.livejournal.com]

Yikes! I will send healing thoughts her way! I'm glad she's getting healthcare.

[winterbadger]

Thanks, Ms D! My sis talked to her and she's apparently much better at the hospital where they're making her take oxygen than she has been at home for some time. I think she may finally accept what we've been telling her (that she needs an oxygen supply, at least to help out when she's sleeping).